You Attract WHO You Are, NOT What You Want
And WHO you are is a byproduct of your upbringing and the relationship patterns inherited by your parents/society
You must first understand your inner child archetype and release the emotional triggers holding you back.
Do you accept your partner for who they are, or do you try to change them to fit your mold or expectations?
Most of us have residual trauma. This doesn’t mean that your parents were bad people. They were people…And they did the best they could with the knowledge they had.