Christmas (in a non-theological meaning) celebrates the rise of the longer days following the Winter Solstice. It’s a universal holiday that is meant to bring people together, regardless of their religious beliefs.
Every year, we meet together to celebrate the return of the Sun, and to prepare for the upcoming calendar year.
Here are my tips for having a more mindful holiday.
Make an effort to engage with your relatives even if you don`t feel close.
Focus on their stories instead of talking first. Using empathy is a precursory to avoiding unnecessary arguments.
Congratulate them on their achievements, or encourage them if they are trying out something new.
Instead of being a passive guest who just shows up at the door, says ‘hello’, tastes the food, and leaves – bring something you’ve made yourself, or ask how can you contribute to the celebration.
Instead of choosing generic gift cards, pick something that…
Are you desperate to find a partner? This might be part of the reason you are still single. When we are feeling desperate, we repel love. When we feel whole and complete, we attract love effortlessly because we feel worthy and deserving of being loved.
Have you ever wondered if you can find the perfect partner for yourself? Have you ever been disappointed and left wondering if the “right” partner (for you) actually exists?
Have you ever given your entire attention and devotion to someone who doesn`t reciprocate your affection and loyalty the way you deserve?
Have you ever felt as if there is something “wrong” with you for not being able to attract a high-value man who reciprocates your love and affection?
Questions to consider:
How would you rate your satisfaction with your love life right now from1-10 (10 is best)?
How does it feel for you in your love life right now?
What’s the impact of being stuck in the current situation?
What’s the cost to you of staying in the same place and not achieving what you really want?
How much time do you spend on attracting your dream partner right now?
What do you spend your time doing to attract the love of your life?
What positive support do you currently have to help you attract the love of your life?
How much romantic love do you have in your life right now?
The missing puzzle you might have been looking for is called self-love. Nobody can love us the way we deserve if we don`t love and accept ourselves first.